In many old church buildings, near the entrances, are special boxes with a brass sign reading “ALMS BOX FOR THE POOR.” Everyone who passed in or out of the building dropped in a donation. Thus, as a need presented itself, it was met.
Recently, several people came to me for advice about handing out money directly to the homeless on the street. Looking at what Jesus said on the matter (Matthew 25:31), one sees that He spoke of food, drink, clothing, healing, companionship; not about money.
Looking at the example of the disciples, Peter and John in Acts (3:1-8), a man lame from birth asked for alms from those entering the temple. Peter spoke to him, “Look at us…Silver and gold, I do not have, but what I do have I give you: In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, rise and walk.” Then Peter gave him his right hand and lifted him up on his feet and his ankle bones received strength. Because of the lift Peter gave and the power of Jesus Christ, on the way to the Temple with Peter and John, the man was “walking, leaping, and praising God.”
So, it is more than money, it is about a relationship with God.
When we are approached for money by a homeless person, we are not to judge. Judgment is “right or wrong, yes or no.”
Discernment is the Christian alternative to judgment. Discernment is seeking insight. Discernment is the best way to offer the right hand to the homeless person asking you for money. Ask if the person is hungry. If so, offer to buy them a meal and take it to them. Ask if they need a place to stay, and refer them to the shelter. If convenient, make the referral by telephone. If someone is with you, drive them there. If they are sick, take them to the emergency room of the hospital. Ask about the need. Ask if they would like prayer. If the only thing they want is money, you have your answer. You have discerned the real need.
Your alms can be put to very good use by your church’s outreach or charity committee, your local Christian homeless shelter, or neighborhood Christian mission, pantry, or agency. They can discern the need. And you won’t need to feel guilty.
God bless you!